Adventures of a Digital Nomad

About a year ago, my husband and I made a big life pivot. Maybe it was turning 30, or both of us reaching career crossroads, or just a moment of clarity about how something was off. We spent about 24 hours lying on the living room floor asking hard questions and entering into what felt like total emotional and spiritual upheaval.

What did we want the focus of our life’s energy to be in this season of life? Did we want to stay in this home, in this city, this country, this job, and this life we’d created for ourselves? Did we even want to stay in this marriage? Everything was on the table. We made space for and imagined all possibilities. We sat in the pain of uncertainty. We welcomed it, cried through it, and waited for our internal knowing to guide us toward the next right action.

24 hours later, we had decided on a hard reset. We wanted a period of time for ourselves, for personal growth, for spiritual inquiry, for asking ourselves difficult questions, and for honesty with ourselves and with each other. Now seemed like the right time, before our lives got too complicated.

“How about Japan?” he said.

“Yeah, I like that.” I replied.

The next day, I quit my teaching job, he applied for a leave of absence from his Ph.D program, and we began making “keep” and “get rid of” piles of all of our earthly possessions on the living room floor. We started making plans to live abroad. I felt clear, but far from calm. I remember calling my friend (and now business partner) Annette constantly and she reminded me to breathe and feel the grounding sensations in my feet.

Over the next couple of months while we finished out the school year, we gradually began letting go of it all. After several weekends of goodwill runs and sidewalk sales, we found ourselves spending our last night on the floor in our empty apartment, with two small suitcases filled with what we had deemed our most essential possessions, and said goodbye to the life we thought we had been building.

We spent the summer living in our converted camper van, spending time with my parents and taking camping trips here and there. Then, in October 2019, with one backpack each, we got on a plane to Kyoto, Japan, and began a new adventure.

It’s interesting to recall the almost crippling fears and questions I had when we left, and how much more easily they sit within me now. I don’t know that I have many answers, but I’m far less terrified of the questions. 

Who am I without my attachment to a place, to a home, to material things, to my community, to my work, and even to my spouse? What and who remains in that laid-bare, spacious existence? What might happen if I just created space to be with myself, undistracted, without any intention or striving? What if my ability to feel stable and grounded was internal, and not depended on the external circumstances of my life?

Almost a year into this adventure and 4 countries later I am still sitting with these questions, but I have become much more comfortable in uncertainty. I’m learning how to feel calm even if I have no idea where I will be staying or even what country I’ll be in next week. I’m learning to trust my intuition as a guide, and to have faith in my ability to figure things out. I’m learning that I don’t actually need more than a backpack’s worth of possessions. I’m learning how to fully feel my feelings, distinguish pain from suffering, and turn toward discomfort. I have found new clarity, and also have a lot more questions.

It’s also astonished me how many aspects of my life are portable. A global pandemic actually turns out to be the perfect time to be a digital nomad. There’s something about the state of the world right now that allows me to relax into chaos and uncertainty. This period has also offered me time and space to grow my blog and launch our community, which has been such a helpful support for me around practicing mindfulness and staying nourished, connected, and grounded during this swirly time.

So that’s what I’m up to. Several people I’ve talked to lately have encouraged me to share more about my unusual year here on my blog, so here I am, sharing. I’m curious to hear your thoughts and responses.

Have you ever made a major change in your life that felt both scary and exciting? Have you ever intentionally carved out spaciousness in your life to get to know yourself more fully?

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15 Comments

  1. Jo Bryson

    Oh my dear Hazel House buddy!!! 🥰 I’m so excited for you both on this path you’ve been guided to take. 🙏🏻💕

  2. Corina

    I know almost exactly what you mean. I came in US from Romania through marriage, and I arrived here with 2 suitcases, 50 pounds of stuff – it was so hard to chose what was dear to my heart and realistically useful for this journey…. I brought a Larousse dictionary from 1920s, gifted by my aunt, a picture of my maternal grandparents and some icons and a couple of wedding gifts. Enjoy Europe!

    • What a sweet story! Yes, special trinkets and memorabilia like those are stored in a few boxes at my parents house, I couldn’t get rid of that kind of stuff! ❤️

  3. Lisa

    I love this story! So good that you are doing this now. You are correct, once you get older it gets more complicated. Not impossible but more people to consider. I’m 52 and I keep thinking “if I had it to do all over again”……I know I’m not too old but it would be hard to convince my spouse to drop everything and follow my dream.

  4. Roxane L Wolff

    I am preparing to be a part time nomad! I am staying in the States, tho.
    My life changed drastically when my husband died suddenly. I sold my house, moved back yo the StLouis area, to live with a friend who invited me. My daughter and her family also invited me to live with them at Raleigh NC.
    How are you staying bright as a nomad? It is one question I have not solved yet.
    Roxey Wolff

    • Hi Roxey,
      Yay! So excited for you! To answer your question, I haven’t followed Bright Line Eating for over a long time now, so that’s not an issue for me. If you want to read more about my transition out of BLE and into intuitive/mindful eating, you can read my other blog posts or check out our mindfulness community where I am an active member. <3

  5. Marla

    Loved reading this! Please do share more about your adventures.

  6. Terry Nunez

    I continue to admire you Katie! Bravo for having the courage to seek your custom life adventures and follow your heart.

  7. I loved reading this. You are an inspiration! Sending love! 🙏🏼💕

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  9. Sheila

    So fascinating to hear about your journey/adventure/pilgrimage, Katie! Wow. Thanks for sharing. You’ve reminded me of the “retreats” I have gone on myself over the years which have helped bring me back to myself. I think it’s time for another. I love this take away, “create space, without intention or striving.” Yes.

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